I am sure the Lions did a great deal to try to help Khalif. Wally has had Frank Lodato as team psychologist for years. Even having a psychologist is a progressive step for a CFL team, or any team.David wrote:Do you think the club ever tried to get Khalif counselling or therapy (I am talking professional help here. Not 15 minutes in Wally''s office for some fatherly advise)? I think it's rather well documented that he has some mental health issues. I recall he even admitted late last season that he has ADD. It's all well and good to say 'good riddance' and that he was petulant, selfish etc, but did anyone ever reach out to get him the help that he clearly needs? Or did they just take the "3 strikes" approach with each incident (the arm bar, the supposed throat slash gesture, the racist tweet), decided that he didn't conform and never will and said, "to hell with it - let's trade him."
Players like Dante Marsh have alluded to how they tried to get through to Khalif.
After a while I believe one has to say: "This guy goes his own, stubborn way. He wants no help. He does not want to change." Look at how patient the Lions were last year with Khalif.
It seems to me, David, that at some point, one has to expect others (including athletes) to take responsibility for their actions, statements, and, indeed, for their lives.
I was very supportive of Khalif. Even now, I do not "condemn" him. But look at his first comments about the Argonauts. He wants out. Look at how he says he wants to destroy the Lions O Line. Look at his non-apology for his throat slashing gesture, his arm bar on Rottier, his racist comment. No apology.
Even though he has issues that bring forth sympathy, for me, his actions, his statements, and his poor response to teammates' attempts to reach him speak volumes about his selfish nature.
I do agree that it is a very sad story.
My best memory of him is his emotional post Grey Cup words as seen on tape. From the heart. But he is a guy who goes his own way, and to heck with the rest.
He will always be a short term guy with any team, it seems to me. Do people change? Rarely, and then it ends up as a book and a movie.
I would not fault the Lions one bit for their involvement with him, and what they did to try to help him.
Just IMO ...